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Loving with Autism Update: Final Legacy Youth Camp

Loving with Autism Update: Final Legacy Youth Camp

Loving with Autism Update: Yesterday I dropped Thomas off to his final Legacy Youth Camp… the final one because he will no longer be the ‘youth’ but will be an adult next year!

As we walked in I was immediately swept up in so many emotions…

As a new family walked in… a Mum with her three young children I was overwhelmed in sadness.. knowing that this family was there because they had lost their Dad… families brought together and forever bound by such a painful event... and because of Legacy out of this comes something so positive, and that is the family and support that is Legacy.

Remembering back to the very first time Legacy was introduced to me and they tole me about the camps and how I could get a break while my Children attended these camps… and they would be mixing with other children in the same situation that could support them by sharing stories and knowing that they weren’t alone and there were others with a similar story… I was hesitant in sending Thomas on his first camp, what would he eat, what do they know about Autism, would they know what he needed when he was to shy to talk… would he be OK… and the whole time they all kept reassuring me that he would be fine… I dropped him off in tears and they were right, he was fine and Jack and I had our first break together where I could just be with him and Thomas could be supported by the Legacy family… it was a relief I find difficult to describe and one that still brings tears to my eyes… I honestly feel like dropping to my knees in gratitude.

I looked around yesterday and noticed how the kids had all grown up, the ones that I have known since the beginning… what fine young men and women they are… some returning to be youth leaders on the camp. Such amazing young people growing through such painful times.

And then I look at Thomas too as he connected with familiar faces and moved with a confidence that is so different to the first time I took him there under duress… but he was also emotional knowing he was doing all of his ‘lasts’ as he enters the scary world of being an adult… scary for him because all he can see now is all of the endings…

But for now I delight in the difference that Legacy and all of the families and Legacy employees have made in our lives and feel oh so very grateful! Thank you to anybody and everybody that has donated to Legacy over the years… you have made a difference!

Loving with Autism Update: Formal

Loving with Autism Update: Formal

You may have noticed that Thomas just had his formal… and it is one of those milestones isn’t it? One that while we were in the midst of smashed walls and windows I would wonder if we would ever get to experience with Thomas, but we did and he got a suit and a tie…Continue Reading

Loving with Thomas Update

Loving with Thomas Update

  Thomas you do us proud! Your Dad is with you in the way you move through the room, the way you laugh and in your gentleness with your Pa… Craig helped you shine your shoes and straighten those sideburns… I was there to gel your hair, cry with pride and delight in how handsomeContinue Reading

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